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Is being Single(without any relation) 'UnCool'???

We live in a society where everyone is striving hard to be accepted.

This pressure of being accepted  by peers and society has been involved so much in our daily life that a person is willing to put his/her pride at stake.

A person is no longer willing to live life to be happy but to fit in.Unfortunately, when asked people seem oblivious to their needs and rather live their life according to what society thinks.

This behavior is more observed in teens than  in any other stage of life.
Teens is the age of developing minds and unfortunately society has put up high standards in development that a person is not even allowed to think his way.
And those who do are regarded as outcast.

Emo,gothic,nerds,geeks,players,populars are some of the 'standards' that the human mind itself has set.People are seeking ways to be cool and being single is rather thought uncool.
And the simple reason that implies to the fact of pushing one's limits is that everyone is doing it.


Here comes the question comes, Is single counted as being uncool???


The only reasonable explanation that is given by 'singles' is that they are tired of being alone and think that being in a relation would not only help them emotionally but would also up their standards in society.

For this, specifically teens seek relationships which later turn out 'delusional' and 'false' in most of the cases.They get their heart broken and their faith from true love is lost.
Similarly,teen girls and boys urge to see hidden possibilities and later find out the bitter truth of life which only brings shame to their family.


People in professional  life get more focused to their life and take their time to be in a relation compared to teens.They end up making wiser decisions compared to the oblivious behavior of teens.

So be proud to be single because you are saved and be in a relation when you are ready not alone.





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